Things That Make You Go Hmmmm

So ever since Boyfriend and I have been doing this whole space thing we have pretty much only spoken once a week for a month. This is very different for us since we used to talk several times a day. Well this week Boyfriend called me on Monday & Tuesday night. I was FLOORED. I don't know what it means or if it means anything at all. Actually, knowing him all it probably means is that he felt like calling me again. Which I guess is a good step in the right direction. Maybe he thinks I actually do add some value to his life, something I haven't been so sure that he thinks.

After talking to him last night it sounds as if he is trying to get some stability into his life. I'm really proud of him it sounds like he is trying to make some solid steps towards his future. I try not to read into everything with him but my Charming, Sophisticated friend thinks he is just trying to get his life in order before I come back in fully. Right now he's working on finding a real apartment and the shock of all shocks is that Boyfriend told me last night that he is planning on staying in this area for two years. Some background on this is that Boyfriend is not from my tri-state area and he hates said tri-state area with the fire and passion of a thousand suns. I had been telling him that his company was doing a lot of very nice things for him so it wouldn't kill him to stay just for loyalty's sake well it turns out he has figured it out on his own. Same thing with the apartment he had been convinced that he should spend more then a certain amount on an apartment and I told him it wouldn't happen in this area since its too expensive. Guess what he figured it out on his own. Before that he was planning on living on a boat. I said it was a great idea in theory but what was he going to do during the winter? Guess what.....that's right kids he's not buying the boat.

So feasibly the next thing he'll figure out on his own is what I've already told him.... So we'll see how quickly that hits him.