Anxiety

I'm supposed to hear from Einstein some time this week to discuss what's going on with him and his Argentinian Girlfriend situation. According to my girlfriend he is quite confused and is unsure as to how he is going to proceed. She told him that he can't just sit in the corner and be confused and leave me in the dark. That was not fair to me and if he's confused he needs to tell me that he's confused.

Well hell, I'm confused too. The last thing I ever expected was to go to my friends birthday dinner and meet some great guy. I'm surprised. I'm totally taken aback by this whole situation and I think it sounds as if he is too. Not to say this is some sweeping love affair, its too soon to say what it is quite honestly. But there is something here that I believe is worth exploring I think that it would be unfair to not give this a shot.

I'm trying to prepare myself for him going either way. I want to believe that he is going to call and say I want to give this a shot but I'm just confused. But I'm trying to prepare myself for him calling me and saying, uh, I think I need to give it a real shot with Argentina girl. Which I sort of don't think will happen because how do you keep dating someone who you are not that attracted to? Isn't that a big component in being with someone, that you do it for you? Not in a sleazy, disgusting way but your partner should be someone that you find attractive and appealing. He apparently is turned off by her. That is what we call a red flag.

Then I start to think about him going all the way to Argentina to tell her that he does not want to be exclusive with her, if it was me I'd kick his ass and send him back on the plane. Maybe she's not as fiery as I am but I know that would most definately be my reaction. How can you do that? Which is worse, finding out through a international long distance call that your boyfriend does want to be your boyfriend anymore? Or having him jump a plane and telling you in person? I think the reality is where do you hide with this? If it was me I would just not be able to deal with this and having him around would make me very upset. He has no place to run to if she is firepoker in hell in heated.

I'm hoping when I speak with him that some of these answers will be answered. Then again he doesn't owe me any explantation as to what is going to happen between him and her. That is not my business. I guess I'm just concerned over what is going to happen to him. I guess time will show, right?